Rules of Engagement
What They Don't Teach You About Life, Power, and Becoming
Author
Ayo Akande
The guide Ayo wished existed at 15, and again at 25. A raw, honest playbook on navigating life's unwritten rules — power, identity, character, and becoming.
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The guide you needed at 15.
Rules of Engagement draws on a personal journey shaped early by both adversity and unusual advancement — navigating school years ahead of peers, learning resilience through experiences of body shaming and bullying.
Over time, Ayo built a grounded sense of character rooted in the Yoruba omoluabi tradition of integrity and respect — and this book is an invitation to do the same.
“Rules of Engagement is AY Nigeria's latest book written as the guide he wished existed at 15, and again at 25.”
What you'll discover
The unwritten rules about life no one prepares you for
How to build power rooted in character, not performance
Navigating identity, purpose, and becoming in a noisy world
The Yoruba omoluabi tradition of integrity and respect
Resilience, adversity, and advancing ahead of your peers
Gender advocacy, mentorship, and creating access
Ayodele Ayo-Akande
A broadcaster, podcaster, writer, advocate, and event compere whose work sits at the intersection of culture, character, and youth development. He hosts The AY Nigeria Podcast, where conversations on life, power, identity, and purpose have reached and resonated with a growing community of young people across the African continent and beyond.
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